Hiya budd! Welcome along. Sorry about the "rules", it's a bit of a wierd thing 'cos your instinct is to think, "join a forum to find out where to go", and that's perfectly logical. The problem is though that many metal thieves and assorted "trawlers" will join sites like this, ask the self same questioon and then if they get an answer then they rock up with a transit van and nick anything that's not bolted down or is worth a penny!
Once you've posted afew reports and people can see you are for real as an explorer then you'll find that people will willingly help you out in PMs (private messages), and/or often offer to have you along on one of their own explores.
I know it seems a bit naff but there it is, and until then, get posting!
All the best and good hunting.
Take care...
Martin and Tracy